How Men Can Use Chakrubs to Break Free from Sexual Shame

Until now most of our blogs have been geared towards women or couples so we thought we’d dedicate some space to discussing the different ways men can benefit from our products.

It’s important to recognize that, even though men and women deal with different societal pressures, we are all exposed to harmful attitudes that can inhibit us from fully realizing our sexual selves. Women are taught that their worth is directly linked to their sexuality, with those who willfully engage in casual relationships often shamed for such behavior. Men are encouraged to sow their oats, and praised for accruing meaningless encounters. Although this gives men some freedom to explore their sexuality, it discourages them from making real connections, which is at the heart of our human experience.

Men seeking to break away from repressive beliefs and develop their sexual identity will have to look outside of the mainstream sex industry for answers. Thankfully, Chakrubs provide a compassionate and non-confrontational way to explore your relationships to sex and love.

Men will find Chakrubs helpful for working through any shame regarding sexual orientation, performance anxiety, or emotional blockages. It will also be beneficial for anyone who has an active spiritual practice and wants to explore their sexuality further. Commonly referred to as the Crystal of Unconditional Love, rose quartz will help those who are struggling to balance feminine and masculine energies. The Heart will be an ideal companion for anyone who needs extra compassion and tenderness on their healing journey. The Xaga, made from black obsidian, is a stone of strength that protects those who use it against negative thought forms, including their own. It is also helpful for releasing any uncomfortable feelings that might surface, include fear and judgment.

The Shadow Line was created to help us honor the dark side of our sexuality, the fantasies and kinks that society has told us are perverse or twisted. It also features two items that were specifically created to stimulate male organs. The Rokh will stimulate the prostate to help its users release shame and invite explosive pleasure into their lives. Obsidian cock rings restrict blood flow to get you in tune with your full potential. Don’t be so quick to dismiss the Root, Nunchaku, and other items of the Shadow Line though. Simply listen to your intuition and see which items you naturally gravitate to.

We are all working through childhood wounds, and it’s important that we support each other on our individual healing journeys. It’s become more socially acceptable for women to explore sexuality on their own, but some men might be too ashamed or intimidated to purchase pleasure tools for themselves. One way we can support the men we love in overcoming these issues is by inviting them to participate in our Chakrubs practice. This will allow them to get familiar with the different crystals and begin to experience their various benefits.

In addition, Chakrubs don’t have to be used for penetration in order to be effective. Many people sleep beside their Chakrubs or meditate with them. Even just lightly grazing a Chakrub across your skin will have healing benefits. It’s usually a good idea for any new Chakrubs user to get familiar with their crystal before inserting inside themselves. Learn your Chakrubs’ energy and pay attention to the feelings that arise within you. Let your intuition guide your practice and don’t feel pressure to make it look a certain way.

Overcoming the fears and insecurities related to our sexuality can be an extremely daunting task. So many of us are caught up in destructive patterns of behavior that we’re not even aware of and sometimes it seems easier to just remain stagnant. Men especially lack resources to explore this aspect of themselves and might have to resist internal dialogues that tell them such exploration is meant for women.

Everything we do is a signal to the universe of what we hope to manifest. Those who have the courage to prioritize pleasure can trust that it won’t be long before their actions are rewarded.

Feature Image by Greer Inez

Author: Danielle Dorsey
About: Danielle Dorsey is a regular Chakrubs contributor who writes our monthly tarotscopes, new moon rituals, Chakrubs Current and edits most of Chakrubs editorial content. She is a freelance writer whose words have appeared in GirlBoss, LAist, Travel Noire, Lonely Planet, and more. Danielle has five years experience as a tarot reader and is a certified reiki master in Usui and Tibetan techniques. Danielle’s work centers around ancestral healing and helping those with marginalized identities achieve peace and wholeness. To check out Danielle’s writings visit DanielleDorky.com and for more information about her tarot and reiki offerings visit tarotviews.com.
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